omg apparently artificial banana flavoring is based on the gros michel banana which was wiped out by a banana plague in the 50s and the banana we eat today is a totally different thing called the cavendish and thats why banana candy doesnt taste like bananas do you know how lied to i feel. like there was a fucking banana apocalypse and no one told me about it until now
it’s also very important to recognize patterns of emotional abuse. apologies and resentment of actions and self pity are common ways to manipulate you into forgiving them and helping them assume power in a situation again. it’s extremely hard to let go of someone you love but people like that don’t truly love you, they love the control. protect, love and care for yourself.